Moved recently and got to know a lovely girl, at the time she was newly single. She's recently got back with her partner and I'm hearing some pretty horrible things. He's dragged her down the main road by her hair, smashed her phone up and the other day showed a mutual friend of ours a horrific bruise that she'd received for not doing some housework to his standards. This time he wasn't drunk.
She hasn't spoken to me about this, so I'm not supposed to know, but several other friends know about it and we're trying to keep an eye out for her.
At the moment she seems to be confiding in our mutual friend, but still saying that 'he's not a bad person', he's always sorry, he doesn't mean it.
I also suspect that she has an escalating drink problem..
Is there anything we can do? I suspect not, and she needs to come to her own senses about him. They have young DCs and the youngest is showing aggression to his sister.
Are there any helplines she can speak to? Anything I can say to make her come to her senses? I live within earshot - should I call the police if I hear anything going on?
Would appreciate any advice.
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RolyPolyLittleBatFacedGirl · 08/02/2013 12:43
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