I'm wondering if any ladies on here are in relationships where they are significantly older than their partner? I'm feeling a little confused at the moment and could use some wise counsel.
I have been seeing a guy for nearly 4 months now. He is lovely, kind, sweet, thoughtful, cute and generally an all round catch that any woman would be lucky to have. The only 'problem' is that I'm 34 and he has only just turned 22.
We aren't officially an item as yet. Meaning we don't refer to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, the dreaded FB relationship status is still set to single, etc. He has made it very clear lately that he wants to make things more official. He isn't seeing anybody else and neither am I.
The only problem is that the age gap is making my hugely nervous. My fiancée (who I split with a year ago) was nearly 7 years younger than me and I feel that it was a factor in why we broke up. Part of me really wants to give it a go but the other part of me wants to shield myself from the pain of when we (inevitably?) split up and I am left all alone again.
Am I just being silly? If anybody else has any positive stories of their sucessful age gap relationships then I would love to hear them!
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Age gap relationship. Feeling wary of making it 'official'.
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Drunkandwearingflipflops · 07/02/2013 00:06
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