i need some advice please

[oopsadaisymaisy]

I think relationships is the best place for it! I met a guy at the weekend and we had a very passionate night. I'm sure you don't need any mire details. I'm on my phone or I would put a little blush icon. Anyway, he wants to see me again. He's very very fit but he's 11 years younger than me , he's not really my cup of tea. I'm a professional and he isn't. He lives quite far from me and he was quite course. I've been single for years, Saturday was the first for me in over 5 years and he is very very fit. What should I do?

[OldLadyKnowsNothing]

What dp you want to do, and what do you think he wants. Sounds like you're not interested in a relationship with him, would he go for Friends With Benefits status.

[OldLadyKnowsNothing]

Aargh, what happened to my ?s?

[oopsadaisymaisy]

I did mention friend with benefits but I think he's looking for a relationship. I may see him again to see what I think when I'm sober :). He was sweet but course at the same time if that makes sense?

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

If he was Ok for the night but not your normal type and you don't have anything in common then just say 'thanks but no thanks'. Love 'em and leave 'em :)

[Cassarick]

You're a 'professional'?? Then you should know how to spell 'coarse' !!

Perhaps there's not such a great difference between you after all !

[oopsadaisymaisy]

Cogito but what about the sex!!!!!!!! It was

[oopsadaisymaisy]

A dry spell for 5 years!

[oopsadaisymaisy]

Cassa a mere typo. I'm on my phone! Try not to take it personally love. :)

[OldLadyKnowsNothing]

A younger bit of rough, really? Yes, see him again, even if it's only to say farewell.

[SolidGoldBrass]

See how it goes. Just don't make any promises, and make sure you are using efficient contraception. There is nothing wrong with a bit of NSA sex. You doan't actually know that he really wants more than that; he might be thinking that you do and he has to at least pretend to in orderto get another shag.

[oopsadaisymaisy]

Absolutely solid. He may have changed his mind by now. I might text him. I was very drunk so I might think differently when I ve spent a bit more time with him. He had the fabulous arms! :)

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

So he's a good lay and you broke your duck, but you'd have nothing to talk about afterwards.... Could he be a placeholder or would you feel a bit heartless doing that to someone?

[oopsadaisymaisy]

Cog, he might surprise me. I ll text him and take it from there. I think its worth one more encounter just to check :)

[oopsadaisymaisy]

Ooh... No turning back now. I ve text him a hello. I ll have to wait now to see if he's still keen. Ive got butterflies. :)

[Locketjuice]

Do it what can another night of fun do then if you decided no at least it was good sex

[oopsadaisymaisy]

I'm waiting to see if he responds to my text. Nothing lost but I am nervous. He might think sod you! I didn't respond straight away when he asked if he could see me again. It might be a blessing. I ll let you all know. :)

[oopsadaisymaisy]

Well, bloody typical. So he texts asking to see me again. I text him a hello a couple of days later and nothing. Honestly I know people are allowed to change their minds but I will never understand men. Anyway, moving on, I ve got another one who's really sweet. Not met him yet but having lots of fun chatting. Staying positive is what I'm doing. :) please god don't make me wait another 5 years!