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My D.I.V.O.R.C.E....I need to gloat...

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trustissues75 · 04/02/2013 19:31

and I hope it's not premature. I don't know if any of you here will remember my original thread a year ago about my fuckwit, bullying, controlling, nasty STBEXH...here is the original thread...

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/a1396110-To-not-allow-my-child-to-fly-to-the-states

and all sorts of fuckery has gone on since then but today I got an email from my whiz-bang-pop-world-leader-international-child-custody-specialist-divorce-lawyer today....

I WON!!!!!! All his arsewipe-fuckery demands have been dismissed save for giving him a bare minimum divorce and I can kick his arse in a couple of months time for child support AND all the back child support he owes to...without opening myself up to personal jurisdiction of the court.....I so want champagne right now.....

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YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 04/02/2013 19:34

Hurray!!!

Great news! 2013 really is the year all the best people are getting divorced

Get the champagne, you deserve it

snoopdogg · 04/02/2013 19:36

Ahem, I was an early adopter....... late 2012

Congrats!! It's a great feeling.

Newyearoldmum · 04/02/2013 19:37

Congratulations glad you got the outcome you wanted

Lueji · 04/02/2013 20:09

And you deserve all the champagne you can get. :)

Great news! 2013 really is the year all the best people are getting divorced

Yes we are. :o

Patch2013 · 04/02/2013 20:33

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trustissues75 · 04/02/2013 21:27

Wow Patch...what did you write?! I suppose all the bet people are getting divorced....what are we all going to do to celebrate freedom from fuckwits?

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YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 04/02/2013 21:28

Cor, missed patch's comment!

It must've been a very sweary congratulations from someone desperate to be divorced.

Hurray for freedom!

Lueji · 04/02/2013 21:30

I'm holding off proper celebrations until I submit this project proposal I'm working on, on Wednesday.

In fact, I can celebrate the fact that I can work hard on it, without having arguments and a "child" pestering me for attention.
Current bloke is basically leaving me to it and being supportive, instead. :)

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 04/02/2013 21:32

Hurray for current/future blokes!

trustissues75 · 04/02/2013 21:33

Sounds good so far....

I'm celebrating by having an oops but very much wanted LO in July and generally looking around me and smiling at all the little things that I couldn't enjoy or even notice because I used to be o weighed down by fear, sadness and worry.

I know, LO, bit quick some may think..but the man walked out of my life over two years ago and if I'm truthful I was already ready to move on around 18 months after he walked out...I was just really good at lying to myself.

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trustissues75 · 04/02/2013 21:35

That was supposed to be 18 months BEFORE he walked out...oh, I'm also celebrating by internally thanking the OW for getting her claws into him and doing me a huge favour - may she enjoy her prize!

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YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 04/02/2013 21:38

Mwahahahahaha!

Nah! Never too soon to be happy and LO sounds great :)

Congratulations even more - you can still have a small glass of champagne

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 04/02/2013 22:16

Snoopdogg, saw your other thread. I do hope you enjoy that cold dish

trustissues75 · 04/02/2013 22:20

Crunch - I had a glass of surprisingly pleasant low alcohol wine. And lots of chocolate! Snoop - karma's a bitch! Perhaps I'm being childish, but after the hell he's put me through - the lies, the game playing, the bullying, the good cop bad cop routine...all that shit I feel so vindicated!

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LemonDrizzled · 04/02/2013 22:27

trust congratulations! I'm in the 2013 gang too, just waiting to sign the Consent Order before the Decree Absolute in March.

Feels funny to celebrate something I never expected to happen to me. But it is better than still being married to him!

Lueji · 04/02/2013 22:31

Congratulations on the baby too. :)

One more reason to be even happier about the divorce. :o

trustissues75 · 05/02/2013 08:16

Thanks Lueji! Two years down the line is a LONG time to wait for a flipping divorce - suppose that's what happens though when one partner has a affair and then wants everything exactly how they imagined it would go!

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