My brother is an arsehole. My parents pander to him and let him away with everything. Theres loads of background but I wont go into it.
His car broke down because he failed to maintain it. My parents gave him their car (whole other thread) and they were getting the proceeds from the sale of the broken car. This was because he owes them an extortionate amount of money.
So my DP wanted to buy the broken car and fix it. Hes a mechanic out of work so its something to do plus we will need a car for when he gets a job. This was agreed with my parents and I told them we would have the money this tuesday past. They knew for two weeks about this.
Tuesday comes and we go round with the money. Cue lots of head scratching and wandering around the house looking for the key.
My mum thought it might still be on brothers key ring. Dad is sure he saw it in the house. But brother is away on holiday and wont answer his phone (he never answers to my parents, treats them like shit) so we go home with no key.
Brother got back today. Text mum to ask did she sort key at 6pm. No, hasnt heard from brother.
Its becoming pretty obvious that he has no intention of handing over the key and they are just lettimg him get away with it. Im sick of being treated like shit and expected to accept it.
Should I just ask for the money back and tell them to forget about it even though DP really wants the car now and has organised gstting it fixed?
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wannabedomesticgoddess · 26/01/2013 01:16
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