I am struggling a bit with my BF's behaviour. Just wanted a straw poll.
My BF DH had a brief fling a year ago. Friend started divorce proceedings but she has now put that on hold and they are having counselling.
Recently, my friend found the OW phone number and phoned her mobile from her DHs phone- she thought this was a good "trap". She got voicemail so left a message telling the OW that if she found out there was any more contact she would make sure she lost her job and her reputation would be in tatters. (OW and her DH work for same organisation .) She also said she would then start contacting her at home- OW is younger and lives with parents. She doesn't know her name in RL or where she lives so this is all bluff.
My friend I think expected me to share her triumph at all of this- but I just felt she had belittled herself and was behaving very badly. I want to be supportive but I do not like what she has done or is becoming.
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Would you ever phone the OW?
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CaptainScott · 25/01/2013 12:44
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