First of all, I should say that DP and I have been together for almost two years, are incredibly happy together and that includes a fantastic sex life. I have never been unfaithful to him - wouldn't even be tempted - he is everything I need in a partner and I envisage our future together. I know he feels the same.
Which is why I can't get my head round that for the past three nights in my dreams (not daydreams, actual sleeping dreams) I have had extremely vivid emotional and sexual affairs with other men?! Two of them were imaginary men, both arrogant and flash with their cash (exactly the kind of men who turn me off in RL) and the third was someone I do know in RL and who is a complete alcoholic fuckup, yet in the dream he was sensitive and passionate and I was falling in love with him!!
I know I don't have any control over these dreams and I really don't think there's any underlying psychological reason why I'm having them, but as mad as it sounds I can't help feeling a bit guilty, like it's a betrayal of DP! Does anyone else in a happy relationship have these kind of dreams? Please tell me I'm not alone here?!
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I'm serially unfaithful - but only in my dreams! Is this normal?
Dreamerstate · 25/01/2013 09:00
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