Dh and I have not been speaking for few nights and although this has happened before albeit rarely, I'm sick of the childish strops. I love him so much and although I've always known his high maintainance, I'm beginning to wonder if he's this right one for me (cries as writes). He's going through a mid life crisis atm so is changing daily and it makes me upset when he calls me boring. He has a very limited relationship with our dd and in fact that is why we fell out because I did not pack certain things in the bag when he was looking after her when I go out. I go to college 1 eve and driving 1 eve and feel stressed and guilty for doing so. I'm really struggling with college as am so tired or worry how he will cope with her and he's fast becoming like a weekend dad who just takes her swimming or shopping etc. I'm so depressed right now coping with motherhood and the changes to my life that my only salvation is when I go to work 22hrs week and that's hardly a salvation as there's a load of pig headed males there too. I hated my maternity leave as dh nags me when I'm not at work and gives me a chore list that I must complete and he forced me to start an online business which took up all the time I should have been spending with dd and it made no money. I still hate my days off as I get comments like 'you've been off all day why haven't you done this'. I don't feel particularly confident in myself and feel I'm not being a good wife as other people seem more organised and have a lot more common sense. I am quite lazy although I'm always on the go and feel constantly lathargic. Have got low thyroid but am taking medicine but right now I'm in a bad place with little light - how can I get out of this hole?
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