Been seeing a man, guess it's a fling at the moment but could turn into a relationship. Not introduced the dc's and he has none. He prefers women to be shaved completely and wear plain white cotton pants. (I have no problem with this if it's just myself involved) but - Am I overthinking things here/being daft or would you avoid entering into a relationship with this man if you have young dd's? (I am a bit more sensitive to things like this due to own experiences - but the above reminds me of young children!).
It would depend < for me > on how the topic came up and exactly what he said. Him insisting you do it and/or banging on about it, is very different to you asking him specifically about his likes/dislikes and him venturing this as something he quite liked.
As you've reached the stage where he felt comfortable in raising such a preference, you needn't be inhibited in asking what fantasy underlies his preference. If he's evasive, you might want to think again if you fear he's unduly interested in prepubescent girls. If however it turns out it's say tennis players, you might decide it's OK.