I had written an email but it seemed to go A.W.O.L so this is the condensed version...........i met a beautiful man in france via a friend in 2010. one year later we were expecting a child and i had an emergengy c -section in a french hospital, without speaking the language which was traumatic. We have a gorgeous wee baby. The father was good but set in his ways((product of an only child...he can be extremely selfish and a total cu*t) I had given up my family, self-emloyed business, friends, etc for this change. 6 months down the line and depression later i moved back to the u.k (with our child-minus father.) we have always kept a good contact, we visit often. He has always wanted us back. I am hating being a single mother, our child is now old enough to make emotional connections and is inconsolible when leaving his dad. I want to do the right thing and make our childs life happy but I worry that my parents (who housed us on our return from france and were such a support) and my friends will say it is a stupid idea to go back. months as a single mother is rubbish but time has made me realise i love him...........i just need advicefrom peoplethat don't know me or my child or have emotional investment:-(x
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