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DH gone - for the night?

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MummyIsMagic79 Wed 09-Jan-13 18:03:25

Am in the aftermath of DH's affair. It lasted 6 weeks, he says. I was heavily pregnant and it has been horrendous to deal with. Can't link as on phone.

Anyway, today we have rowed by text while he's been at work and I've told him we'd be better off apart tonight. Both snappy and tired, due to 5 week old DS. Plus DH Is giving up smoking. Fighting about the affair will just be made into something massive.

He has taken it really badly and is furious with me. He says he won't come home tonight. I'm guessing he's stopping at a mates house or his mums.

We have been getting on really well. More and better communication. He has been vending over backwards in every way really.

Today I was in a shit mood and he asked me what was up. I told him, in no uncertain terms. Probably not a good idea while he's at work, but I didn't see why I should hold it in. It escalated and I said if we were both so pissed off we shouldn't be with each other tonight.

I just don't know what to do. Part of me wants to call him and ask him to come home. Part pf me is glad he's not coming home.

MummyIsMagic79 Sun 20-Jan-13 13:12:10

It's stupid details that bother me. I need to stop obsessing.

Thisisaeuphemism Sun 20-Jan-13 14:05:24

It is early days, and you've had your baby in the meantime - don't be hard on yourself x

MummyIsMagic79 Mon 21-Jan-13 14:31:01

Have cancelled. She isn't worth my time or energy. Going out with DH instead.

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