I have been with my partner 8 months I'm 7 months pregnant, certainly wasn't planned but what's happened as happened.
He is still close to his ex, they have a child together, at first it didn't really bother me I'd been in a violent relationship for 10 years so the fact he's still on good terms with his ex I saw as a good thing.
As the months have gone on I've noticed he constantly mentions her constantly and although he doesn't mean to its almost like if I say something she's done it before me bigger and better and I'm not the jealous type I just don't need to know anything about her.every day I hear her name over again from him
we had a massive row over Christmas because of his ex mother in law tagged him in a post saying he was sat on her settee with the ex when he'd told me he was at his mums and I just lost it turned out he weren't there but he just didn't acknowledge that I'd be hurt reading that she's also tagged him in photos of them when they where together arms round each other and he said he was going to have words but he never did.
He says he loves me, I'm 2 months from having this baby and I just feel like he's with me because his ex won't have him. He said they split up because they rowed all the time and it was just a nice friendly split. I just don't know if its me being sensitive or him.
I don't know what to do if I wait till the baby is born and see if things change, ask for a break for a week get my thoughts together or just split up.
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I think my oh is still in love with his ex
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drypond · 05/01/2013 10:58
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