This is an update to an earlier post a few days ago.
Tonight I got a text from my ExH who has had my DC For the last two nights. He now says he will not hand him over tomorrow unless I hand over the money owing to my dc. He is referring to the child benefit I receive.
I have had numverous texts over the last week demanding my child benefit number so he can claim it or to hand over money to him to buy clothes. I have kept all the text messages he sent.
We have no legal care agreement as he refused to accept any of it. I am legally separated, I just couldn't afford a divorce :( I have received child benefit since my ds was a baby. I am right in saying this identifies me as the main carer? He has constantly told me he won't pay for things because I receive child benefit even though he is paid a good salary, and now he says our dc has nothing to wear that fits? In my home my dc has a wardrobe of clothes that fit! The previous post explains more. I spoke to the online benefits helpline earlier in the week and told them he was blackmailing me for child benefit and gave them details.
I can't get a solicitors appt until next week.
What can I do? I intend to go there tomorrow to collect him. If he refuses to hand him over do I call the police? I have no idea re the law in this respect.
Why after years of separation can he just not let me live in peace?
I hope that made sense.
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Blackmail or Extortion? ExH says he wont hand over dc tomorrow unless I give him money!!
MsSavingPennies · 04/01/2013 21:37
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