DH and I both work full time, have 3 DC under 5. I do the majority of the housework, anything he does, I have to ask him to help with and he complains about it and often laughs. He does help with children's breakfasts and baths though.
Both been off over the festive season, again, I did everything and I have that sinking feeling of here we go again. Don't live near family and in any case they wouldn't help out. DH's family make no contact with me whatsoever, but he says that's just the way they are.
Affection non existent. DH sleeps on the opposite edge of the bed, no physical contact in nearly a year. Minimum affection shown towards children. Try to speak to him about it but he walks away.
Now he's due to get an op within the next couple of months which will mean no lifting heavy items, so he's chosen to stay and be looked after by his mum post op and while he recovers (3 hours away). So that means I'll be struggling on my own again trying to get myself organised to go to work and deal with everything else.
Sorry for the moan, but just needed to get it all out. Sorely tempted to run.
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paris100 · 03/01/2013 09:25
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