I've just heard a friend is expecting again. My first reaction was a sinking feeling and then one of jealously.
It's a terrible reaction, but one I frequently feel. Especially as this particular friends had a tragic loss last year (her baby was stillborn very early).
I have two wonderful children and have come to realise it will be just two. For economic reasons mostly, though partly for health reasons. I always wanted three though now I feel content with two.
Also I did have a miscarriage two years ago at Christmas. It was a totally unplanned pregnancy
It'll take me a while to be able to contact her and congratulate her. This makes me feel like terrible person.
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Why am I such a terrible person? I should be happy for my friends shouldn't I?
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Moln · 24/12/2012 07:51
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