This happens to me so often. A guy will like me; often a nice guy but I will just not fancy them. People will say "Oh but he's lovely" or "It will grow" or "Chemistry isn't important" or worse: "You will grow to love them." Am I being really shallow when I think I have to fancy them to make a go of it; being a nice guy isn't enough.
It's not even to do with looks. I do fancy a lot of pretty boys but a particularly intense crush was on my college professor who was a bit of a minger and very short but I fancied him as he was so intelligent and becauuse of the sheer force of his personality. Is this normal or should I give some of these nice but no chemsitry types a go? Also why is it that men who fancy me I often don't fancy and men who I fancy are unavailable or aloof? Not always; this summer I met a man who was lovely, I got on with and fancied the pants off. The distance was too much aggrr!
My handy man keeps asking me for a drink and he's a nice guy but there is no way I want to shag him.
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Lovely men; I just don't fancy them!
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superstarheartbreaker · 05/12/2012 21:27
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