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So I'm in love with my gay best friend

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:17

And it seems he is with me too.

And, awkwardly,his best mate who I've known almost as long (decade) seems to also quite love me and we went on one date...

SHIT

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Monty27 · 05/12/2012 00:19

Is this a riddle? You're gay too? Confused

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:21

Is that you, Maria ?

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:21

No

And maybe I feel same. I adore him,just never saw him like that, but gahh I fucking love and adore

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:21

Nope AF, but you've fixed my relationship issues years ago :)

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:22

But risking friendships, not sure, HE IS GAY. Arghhhhhh

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:23

Sorry, just being a bit silly.

Wow.

Ok, this gay BFF...is he Bi ? Because this could actually work you know Smile

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Monty27 · 05/12/2012 00:24

What gender are you all?

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BunnyLebowski · 05/12/2012 00:24

Eeeeh it's just like Bob & Rose.

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:24

Me girl him boy

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:24

and the third spoke...is that a boy ?

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:25

You have 2 people that love you ?

Bloody awful dilemma ! Are you Cheryl Cole then ?

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:26

Yeah bi. Quote: "darling wouldn't you me cocky?" (Was drunk) him: no I've always loved you, and I'm bored of that

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chrismissymoomoomee · 05/12/2012 00:26

This is all a bit 'Dawsons Creek' for me Xmas Confused

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Monty27 · 05/12/2012 00:26

Grin

Hmmm, but it's a bit complicated if they're both in love with you isn't it?

Has he had female partners before?

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:26

*wouldnt you miss cock

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:26

"darling wouldn't you me cocky?"

fuck yeah, you were drunk

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:26
Grin
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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:27

He did in past yes

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TakingBackMonday · 05/12/2012 00:27

AF read my correction

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chrismissymoomoomee · 05/12/2012 00:28

Meh I've declared my undying love for a lamp post while drunk before now, I wouldn't read too much into it.

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LightHousekeeping · 05/12/2012 00:28

It's all abit Corrie.

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:28

Has he had relationships with women before ?

have you been with bi men before ?

it can work...if you both wanted the same level of commitment and are on the same page

no different to hetero-normative (yes, i learned it from sgb..) stuff from that pov

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Monty27 · 05/12/2012 00:28

Grin


Oh he likes fanjo too then? What about the third party? His bf is also male and gay?

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:29

we x-posted, TBM Smile

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 05/12/2012 00:30

have you chatted about this further, when you are both sober ?

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