Just a hypothetical question as I am single, but this has happened to me in the past. And I read about it ALL THE TIME on here when there is an OW/OM and the persons beloved partner turns from a loving, gentle nice to be around person into a cold, fault-finding twat. It seems so common, but WHY do some people do this?
Even putting aside the 'I have met someone else' thing... because some folk will just say 'Look, I'm so sorry but I have met someone else' and regretfully but kindly end the current relationship. Why do other people act like complete cocks and literally have a personality transplant almost overnight? What is it about falling for someone else - or even being mildly interested and flirty with someone else - that makes some people lose all respect and consideration for the person they once appeared to love and cherish so much?
Genuine question, and really interested to hear all viewpoints. I am completely stumped, as I have seen this happen time and again all around me and it's really depressing to watch. I would have thought it was just a human nature thing but not all people do this, do they?
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WHY do some people do the cold, sneery distant thing when they have met someone else?
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OneMoreGo · 02/12/2012 12:20
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