i started seeing someone only 2 weeks ago but i really like him, he's funny, clever, talented blah blah and he was really keen, friendly, he had come to my house, we went on couple dates, spoke lots texts, msn etc and he was very keen and saying all the right things.
All of a sudden he went quiet and then sent me text saying "i thought i could handle being with someone again but i cant and im sorry"
I basically said sorry if i have put any pressure on you, i really like you, but i understand, if you want to see each other but no pressure thats fine but if you dont want anything i understand.
he text back and said i hadnt put any pressure on him, sorry for letting me down etc etc ive got some thinking to do, i need to man up, dont think im as ready as i thought i was"
I know its really early days but i really liked him and im a bit gutted. Ive told him he knows where i am when he is a man - but this was good natured.
I dont get the impression that its me he just isnt able to handle thought of being in a relationship.
I will not contact him because i think that will make him run away but do you think he will contact me again?
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started seeing someone but now suddenly backed off
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cantfindamnnickname · 26/11/2012 21:01
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