If you were ill, would you expect your DH to say/ do anything? We are both utterly exhausted (EBF 4 month old and a toddler), so I know he feels crap too.
But I've got terrible stomach pains and now d&v. I went to bed at 7pm last night. I got up 7 times to the baby. DH went to work at 6.15 (working further away today - it's usually 8.15). Didn't ask how I was feeling, hasn't texted or anything, knowing I have the two children to look after.
If he asked me what I wanted him to say or do (which he would if I mentioned this), I wouldn't know. I knew he couldn't stay off work. I don't know what kinds of things people say or do to be kind to each other anymore.
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belindarose · 21/11/2012 10:08
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