When we got together 4 months ago we couldn't keep our hands off each other. Whenever we got to spend the night together we'd have sex 3/4 times a night and then in the morning too, it was amazing! Then after a bit it got to the point were when we spent the night together, we'd have sex but just the once and then sleep. Fair enough, didn't expect him to keep up that pace forever.
Then it got to the point where if we spent 3 nights a week together, we'd just have sex on one of those nights. That's where we are now. Plus, I feel like it's always me that instigates it. He NEVER instigates sex other than kissing me, judging my reaction and then carrying on kissing me hoping it will lead to sex. He never touches me spontaneously, if I have my back to him he'll never instigate sex - it's like he'll only "go for it" if he's been given a clear green light by me kissing him longer than normal.
It's gotten a bit boring too. Foreplay is exactly the same each time. We start off in the same position each time, we finish up in the same position each time - it's almost become a script we follow.
If we'd been married for years - yeah I could understand it going a bit stale but it's only been 4 months!! I feel like he's not attracted to me. In fact, I wonder if I stop instigating sex at all, will we ever have sex again??
Not right after 4 months is it?!
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Sex life going stale after just a few months together??!
BandOfMares · 20/11/2012 16:34
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