Ok, as an Aspie, I don't really have girl friends. I have a DP and one close male friend (my best friend).
Best friend is single and has been for a long time. As a child he was overweight and a naturally big build and didn't get much female attention as a teenager as a result. These days is a very good looking, well built male. Not overweight at all, but a nice stocky body.
He is kind, gentle and generous and a really good friend. He has a good job, good dress sense and his own (rented place). He is 28. At about the age of 22, he lost his hair. He also wears glasses.
In my opinion he still sees himself as the fat kid with glasses but is now bald to boot, which just isn't true. He is actually quite attractive.
Because of this he just can't, and doesn't want to talk to girls, yet he really yearns for a serious relationship. I think his own lack of self esteem really drags him down but can't seem to help him.
I tried talking him to a few Halloween parties but the failure to be able to socialise just made him depressed for a few days.
It's killing me to see him like this, what can I do.
I must mention, he is quite the meaningful type and isn't one to go about and get laid for the sake of it, he needs it to mean something. He is very shy around girls he doesn't know.
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bakerbakerfairycaker · 19/11/2012 16:13
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