I'm after some advise. DH and I have 2 dd 2 and 5 mo I also have 3 older children by EXH. Since DH and I have been together his Dsis has always hated me. Won't go into the long saga but I took him away from her and his niece. So we have always bought for niece on birthdays, Easter and Christmas and she and OH dad have always bought for our 2 year old. I have no idea why their gifts are combined they don't live in the same house but that's by the by. She seems quite dependant on her dad both financially and for childcare.
so our new baby was born in June. No card from oh dad or dsis. Our other daughter was two recently. We got 2 cards posted through the door. One from grandad with money the other from dsis. They both live 5 mins away. From some snide comments on facebook I think she's pissed off now cos DH asked his dad to pass on news of our new daughters birth.
So I really could not give a flying fuck about oh dsis but I don't believe DH niece should be hurt so is it ok for DH to pop up to his dads when niece is there and give Christmas presents etc?
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orangeflute · 17/11/2012 16:34
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