My DH has two children aged 8 and 10 from a previous relationship. He was never married to their mother.
We havent been married long (few months). I ve been with DH 18 months and we have a 4 week old baby together.
Contact with his children has been very difficult with their mother often sending nasty texts, mentioning things about when they were together (not good things). His ex goes through stages of "your not seeing the kids again, dont ever contact me again etc"
However whats really getting to me is when DH tries to contact the kids through his ex after shes stopped him from seeing them she sends text messages saying that he cant get over her, he must learn to let her go and hes married now etc etc. Saying this is quite a regular thing.
His ex has a fiance and has had a new baby with him.
Its really getting to me when she says my husband still has feelings for her and cant get over her etc.
I feel like shes trying to split us up, and its eating away at me inside, i cant get it out of my head.
DH just ignores all comments like that.
I feel like ending things, i feel like walking away, i dont wanna be in a situation where someone is trying to come inbetween my marriage.
Friends tell me shes saying it to wind me up, and to be honest its really working!
I cant ignore it, and its really affecting me.
I dont know what to do.
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Revelsarethebest · 15/11/2012 09:10
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