DP acted like a complete turd yesterday and I'm still furious at him today.
DPs niece 24 was staying over so DP had the day off work, (he normally works away mon-fri). I was up at 6.30am to walk the dog then get DD2 ready for nursery. DP finally got out of bed at 8.20am to give me a lift to work.
I got a text at lunchtime asking where MY gift card for the local shopping centre was as he wanted to get some new clothes. DP was miffed as I had no idea but gave him a few suggestions of where to look. DP couldn't be bothered to actually search for it but went shopping with his niece anyway.
I have quite a demanding job and when DP offered to pick me up from work I was really pleased with his thoughtfulness.
As soon as I get in the car DP asks me what I'm making for dinner as he is starving and tired from walking around the shopping centre for 2 hours!
When I pointed out that I had been at work all day and he should be the one cooking he was surprised and said he wanted to spend time with his niece. He wouldn't be able to do that if he was making dinner for 3 adults and 2 children.
By the time I had gone to the supermarket, made dinner and cleaned the house it was 8.30pm. DP then promptly went to the gym for a couple of hours which blows his feeble excuse about not making dinner out of the water.
I am so annoyed with him and must be PMTing because I am furious today and can't even be bothered to text / ring him at work.
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PMT or lazy ass DP?
coolmango · 13/11/2012 13:49
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