Not sure how to start as everything seems such a muddle. Dh left in april saying he needed some space and time alone as he felt very stressed. He had been withdrawn for a while before he left. He has not come home yet. He comes at the weekends to see the girls (ages 5 and 1) but other than talking about the children he doesn't want to converse with me.
He is on anti depressants and has been since August. He works all the time and says he is staying with a work colleague but I don't beleieve him. I think he is staying in a hotel and using a credit card to pay for it, had a letter last week from amex about charges for going over the agreed limit etc.
When I try to talk he always says he doesn't want to talk about it now, not a good time, too tired, stressed or busy. He has cut himself off from friends and family and seems immersed in work. I asked of he wants a divorce and he say no. I rang him tonight and he said he just wants me to carry on with the girls without him as he needs to be alone. I am so confused and feel numb and in limbo. He shows no emotion even though I am upset and crying.
Not sure what I am asking but just needed to get it out.
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MrsRogerSterling · 10/11/2012 20:57
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