My husband moved out of the family home 6 weeks ago, he is currently being tested for an ASD, we have a 11 month dd. His behaviour and rituals were becoming increasingly bad, we both have kept the reasons from our family and friends, however they are aware of the separation, the break up is really amicable as my husband has a very sick father who adores our daughter, tbh we are closer now than ever before and we both love each other but I just at this moment cannot live with him if that makes any sense.
Anyhow a situation came up with our daughters godparents last week, we asked his best friend and his wife and two of my close friends.
The godfather has a birthday coming up soon and basically my husband is the only one invited, as it is a surprise occasion his wife the other godmother has organised the invites fully.
My husband emailed her the other day and asked why I was not invited, her reply was that basically if we are not together I was not invited, she stated in her email that she assumed that the break up was nasty, my husband explained to her that it wasn't and he told her that he did not want to fall out with her however he feels the way I have been disregarded is very rude of her.
I am a little bothered but not as much as my husband, my husband and I regret now asking her to be our dd godmother, we both feel that this is not a positive attitude we want around our daughter, my husband and I did not want any of this at all or for people to take sides and disregard each other, my husband is ready to tell her that she respects us both or not at all, thx for reading
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needtoask · 10/11/2012 08:29
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