I found out today from child services that my EX is accusing me of physiologicaly abusing my DS's ahead of court hearing for residency.
He has put on the court forms that he is their primary carer when in truth he does very little for them. I am gutted, I feel as though I am drowning. He knows I know and is lording it up ( well was until he went out,again).
He is emotionaly abusive and I am trying to get away from him but he refuses to leave although he has somewhere to go and I can't leave as the legal services commission won't grant me legal aid if I do. He has reported me to the police saying he is worried about the emotional impact the seperation is having on the children and is concerned about my mental state.
I am not exaggerating when I say everything he is saying is lies, I am scared because everything he says or I say is only my word against his.
I have contacted womens aid,the NSPCC and the domestic violence unit in the past 12 months. Child services say they are not taking anything he says any further but were surprised the police had not been in contact about his allegations.
I don't feel strong enough to keep fighting, I have friends and my mum for support, also another agency experienced in DA but I feel so alone when he is here.
I don't want to give up but it's hard,so hard.
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I found out today I am being accused of physiologicaly abusing my DS's by EX, he's reported me to the poilce,court hearing end of the month
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rotool · 08/11/2012 21:56
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