This may sound as though I'm dredging up ancient history, and maybe I am, but I was thinking the other day about how I've never made the most of my looks or really pulled myself together, and out of the blue I remembered a time when my father was driving me somewhere in the car and said of a woman crossing the street in front of us, "She sure has a nice set of lungs." (I would have been a teenager at the time and this was certainly not the only time he made similar comments.) He would also point out attractive women in magazine adverts and so forth to me. My parents were and are married. Was this behavior normal? I must have assumed so at the time but now it makes me uncomfortable to think of it and I'm beginning to realize it affected me as I feel disproportionately self conscious around men, and I'm an adult (theoretically) woman.
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