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Iamgoingnow · 05/11/2012 08:11

I just wanted to post again to let everyone who was kind enough to read my last thread that I am now in the UK with my sister.

It is such a huge relief to be here away from the terrible situation I was in. I was able to sleep soundly for a few hours last night knowing we were safe, until my daughter decided it was time to get up!

I am going to see if I am still registered with my old doctor today or if not the re-register as I want to have my the last injury inflicted on me checked out.

thanks you for taking the time to read my posts.
I had nowhere else to turn to and the compassion of complete strangers gave me courage and comfort to leave.

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solittletimeandsomuchtodo · 05/11/2012 08:13

Hugs
You are so brave and so string Smile

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Rikalaily · 05/11/2012 08:16

So glad to see this update. Don't forget to talk to the authorities and arrange to get an injunction etc put in place to prevent him from taking your child if he follows you. If you talk to womens aid they may be able to help you get housing in a different area (but not too far) to your sister to make you harder to trace.

Good luck!

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hildebrandisgettinghappier · 05/11/2012 08:23

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brightermornings · 05/11/2012 08:34

That's fantastic news
Grin

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DottyDot · 05/11/2012 08:36

Brilliant - was hoping you were ok and would be able to post. Good luck!

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colditz · 05/11/2012 08:39

Are you the poster who has left the Middle East? If so, I've been tank about y over the weekend.

If not, well done anyway!

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Iamgoingnow · 05/11/2012 08:48

Yes I am the poster who left ME.

Somebody up thread has suggested womens aid, I will contact them later on today, hopefully they can give me some good advice and help me get injunction at the very least.

thank you for your kind messages

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Schlock · 05/11/2012 08:51

Well done! I've been looking out for a thread by you, I'm really glad you're back here and safe. Best of luck getting yourself settled.

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Wilding · 05/11/2012 08:54

Another one who's been thinking about you - well done, I'm so relieved you got out. Good luck with everything, I hope Women's Aid can give you some good advice Smile

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Asamumnonsense · 05/11/2012 09:05

Been thinking about you and so happy to hear that your safe & sound. Wish you the best.

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FrequentFlyerRandomDent · 05/11/2012 09:41

Super news. Glad you are both safe. Good luck.

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GlesgaRocket · 05/11/2012 09:44

Brilliant news. This is the start of the rest of your life now.
Stay strong, and best wishes to you and your daughter.

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Kixicle · 05/11/2012 09:47

So happy you are safe. I read but didn't post on your old thread, and I have been thinking about you.

As Glesga said, this is just the start. I hope thinks keep getting better for you.

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mentlejen · 05/11/2012 09:55

So glad you made it- I imagine it took a lot of courage to make that journey. Along with so many others, I've been thinking of you over the weekend.

As well as women's aid, you might want to look at www.rightsofwomen.org and give them a ring- they provide free legal information and advice.

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spooktrain · 05/11/2012 09:58

so incredibly relieved to hear you made it ..... you have been so incredibly brave getting out of there.
Contacting Women's Aid sounds a really good idea.

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brianbennettfan · 05/11/2012 10:14

Fantastic! Was concerned about you. Please do take as much advice as you can get, and keep your wits about you. All the best to you and the little one, bet your sis is glad to have you back. Thanks

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FlobbadobbaBOO · 05/11/2012 10:17

You did it! Have been lurking on your thread all weekend to see if you were ok. So glad you're ok. Now be proud and be strong x

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ComradeJing · 05/11/2012 10:30

Oh well done OP.

I also spent the weekend worrying about you. Very, very pleased to read you're out.

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lucyellenmum · 05/11/2012 10:35

Brilliant news - and now starts the rest of your life :)

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kiwigirl42 · 05/11/2012 10:43

really pleased you are safe. Well done for being so brave for your child.

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Sunnywithachanceofshowers · 05/11/2012 10:53

Well done lovely - glad you're both safe.

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Heleninahandcart · 05/11/2012 12:23

So good to know you are safe, I've also been wondering if you are ok. It must have been terrifying but you still did it. I hope you feel proud and will gather even more strength. Freedom! [smle]

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Lueji · 05/11/2012 12:29

That's fantastic news.

Wishing you a life of happiness. :-)

And strength for the inevitable hard times until you settle.

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mum11970 · 05/11/2012 13:06

So glad you are now safe.

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ThereGoesTheYear · 05/11/2012 13:17

Oh thank god you're safe. Been thinking about you all weekend. Well done. Take all the help you can find. Be kind to yourself, and know that there sre lots of lovely women on here to talk to.

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