Just want to hear from people in a similar situation really, bit of background......
Mum and dad split up when I was 3 their marriage wasn't the best and DF was violent throughout. After they split up he moved away and married his second wife, they were married for a few years I used to go and visit a few times a year they split up after she had an affair. He moved back to our area and met his third wife who is 9 years younger than him and she had a 6 month old daughter who he has now adopted. His wife was jealous of me from the start and she used to kick off when I went there and they eventually moved 30 miles away. After they moved he was in and out of my life had Christmas and birthday presents (usually the most expensive things) anyway fast forward a few years had two daughters the eldest is 12 the youngest is 2 and since I have had my youngest he has hardly seen us in fact he hasn't spoken to me for about a year and a half. Me and DP were talking last night about it and he suggested that I get in touch with him to sort things out even though I am not really sure what I have done so I text him saying: - hi dad it's ? Any chance we could meet up just the two of us to sort things out? I hate us not being in touch.
This was the reply; there's nothing to sort out, you only contact me when you want something, leave me alone and get on with your life.
Okay fine I know where I stand has anybody else been through a similar situation with their fathers?
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Fallen out BIG time with my dad
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kay1980 · 03/11/2012 22:47
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