Ok, so I am a long time lurker, occasional poster, in need of a bit of backup.
I have been seeing my BF for 6 months. We normally spend at least three nights a week together, usually the majority of the weekend and a night in the week. . For the last 2 weeks we have only spent one night together due to childcare commitments/different half terms/work/his shift times etc.
When he was here last weekend, he said that his parents (who I have met a few times) were hosting a fireworks party for his extended family, including some who live overseas, this Friday. He said that his parents had invited me and my DC (they've not met them yet) but that he (so, we) wouldn't be going as his own DD is away with his XP, but he suggested that we do some fireworks here with my DC this Sat.
Just before he left on Sunday, I asked when I would see him again (tricky this week due to his shifts) and he said that he would come over on Friday, (so this would mean that he would be spending Friday night to Sunday at mine as he lives 25 miles away and we normally stay at each other's).
However...
Last night he rang me on his way in to work to tell me that some mates had asked him out on Sat night and did I mind if he went. I said no because he hasn't been out with them in the 6 months we have been together, they had a weekend away ages ago but that's all, so he rarely sees them. Anyway I checked that he was still coming over today and he said no because he is going to his parent's after all to see his uncle who lives abroad. He forgot that he had plans to come over. He said we could go out with our DC's on Sunday for the day, lunch out etc and fireworks later at his.
Tbh our DC's don't get on that great, there's some bickering and it can be hard work (girls of a similar age), plus we won't get any time just the two of us. I feel pretty pissed off to be relegated to Sunday.
He has cancelled two arrangements with me over this weekend, with hours to spare and "forgetting" that he had plans with me hardly makes it better does it?
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snailfiddler · 02/11/2012 09:12
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