I posted last week. my partner of 5 years drinking, became abusive in front of me and 14 year old daughter about 3 weeks ago, I had to call police. Didn't press charges, just asked for him to be removed as wouldn't leave and upsetting my daughter. We don't live together. Tried to get him a taxi but he wouldn't, called his 65 year old father to help, he wouldn't, so third option to resort to police. Not seen him since. No charges made, I didn't make a statement. However I have texted him I am sorry that I had to call police but he gave me no choice and I hope we can sort things out. We share a dog and my daughter loves him as well as me. But he was f-ing and blinding including c word in front of my daughter (all over nothing, just too drunk and winds himself up) and punched me in the arm to try and get me out of (my) lounge as he wanted to sleep on the sofa. Anyway, I've texted him everyday that it's ok. We forgive him and he must forgive me too, but life is too short for this silence... Up until the incident we were very much in love, made love every day... just his drinking too frequently and too much. I can't bear the silence though and don't really have any family to confide in. What is he thinking of me? What should I do? I am not coping very well with this. Thank you.
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