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Age old question I know - but is kissing another person cheating?

55 replies

DoIlooklikeapeopleperson · 01/11/2012 13:52

And when I say kissing I mean snogging for 10 minutes on 3 separate occasions.

Would really like a simple yes or no.

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Anifrangapani · 01/11/2012 13:52

Yes

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GlesgaRocket · 01/11/2012 13:53

Yes, definitely cheating.

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ScarletWomanoftheVillage · 01/11/2012 13:54

yes

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FuckityFuckFuck · 01/11/2012 13:54

Yes

A million time yes

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Anniegetyourgun · 01/11/2012 13:54

Quick peck, no. (XH please take note!) Long snog, definitely.

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Pancakeflipper · 01/11/2012 13:55

Yes.

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DragonMamma · 01/11/2012 13:55

Yes yes yes.

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Titsalinabumsquash · 01/11/2012 13:55

Of course it is!

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ScreamyShriekyFrightyWoozyWooo · 01/11/2012 13:56

Yes.

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DoIlooklikeapeopleperson · 01/11/2012 13:56

Thank you.

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dequoisagitil · 01/11/2012 13:56

Definitely. An extended kiss is intimate.

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susiedaisy · 01/11/2012 14:00

yes

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PeppermintPasty · 01/11/2012 14:12

Yes, definitely. Are you ok?

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firstpost · 01/11/2012 14:14

Yes, that sort of intimacy is cheating. Definitely.

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YouOldSlag · 01/11/2012 14:15

Yes without a doubt. It's very intimate.

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booklava · 01/11/2012 14:16

yes

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WaitingForMe · 01/11/2012 14:19

I think cheating is anything the person you are in a relationship would consider cheating.

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fluffyraggies · 01/11/2012 14:23

So, are you the cheated on or the cheater OP?

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OhDeerHauntingFENTON · 01/11/2012 14:25

Yes, it's cheating.

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MrsTerryPratchett · 01/11/2012 14:28

Yes. Are you the kisser or non-kisser? Even if one time wasn't, three definitely was.

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BeerTricksPott3r · 01/11/2012 14:29

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MrsBungleScare · 01/11/2012 14:30

Yes definitely cheating.

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Teeb · 01/11/2012 14:30

I'd agree that within the standard definition it is cheating, yes.

Cheating is something that one/both parties decides it is.

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sooperdooper · 01/11/2012 14:32

I think the frequency makes it cheating, once could be a mistake, three times is cheating

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YouOldSlag · 01/11/2012 14:34

Once would be enough to cause a fierce row and have a massive kick up the arse, but more than once would have me considering the future of the relationshsip.

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