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Age old question I know - but is kissing another person cheating?

(56 Posts)
DoIlooklikeapeopleperson Thu 01-Nov-12 13:52:10

And when I say kissing I mean snogging for 10 minutes on 3 separate occasions.

Would really like a simple yes or no.

Anifrangapani Thu 01-Nov-12 13:52:53


GlesgaRocket Thu 01-Nov-12 13:53:23

Yes, definitely cheating.


FuckityFuckFuck Thu 01-Nov-12 13:54:33


A million time yes

Anniegetyourgun Thu 01-Nov-12 13:54:36

Quick peck, no. (XH please take note!) Long snog, definitely.

Pancakeflipper Thu 01-Nov-12 13:55:18


DragonMamma Thu 01-Nov-12 13:55:31

Yes yes yes.

Titsalinabumsquash Thu 01-Nov-12 13:55:33

Of course it is!

ScreamyShriekyFrightyWoozyWooo Thu 01-Nov-12 13:56:47


DoIlooklikeapeopleperson Thu 01-Nov-12 13:56:49

Thank you.

dequoisagitil Thu 01-Nov-12 13:56:54

Definitely. An extended kiss is intimate.

susiedaisy Thu 01-Nov-12 14:00:38


PeppermintPasty Thu 01-Nov-12 14:12:39

Yes, definitely. Are you ok?

firstpost Thu 01-Nov-12 14:14:04

Yes, that sort of intimacy is cheating. Definitely.

YouOldSlag Thu 01-Nov-12 14:15:20

Yes without a doubt. It's very intimate.

booklava Thu 01-Nov-12 14:16:23


WaitingForMe Thu 01-Nov-12 14:19:47

I think cheating is anything the person you are in a relationship would consider cheating.

fluffyraggies Thu 01-Nov-12 14:23:41

So, are you the cheated on or the cheater OP?

OhDeerHauntingFENTON Thu 01-Nov-12 14:25:43

Yes, it's cheating.

MrsTerryPratchett Thu 01-Nov-12 14:28:34

Yes. Are you the kisser or non-kisser? Even if one time wasn't, three definitely was.

BeerTricksPott3r Thu 01-Nov-12 14:29:57

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

MrsBungleScare Thu 01-Nov-12 14:30:39

Yes definitely cheating.

Teeb Thu 01-Nov-12 14:30:44

I'd agree that within the standard definition it is cheating, yes.

Cheating is something that one/both parties decides it is.

sooperdooper Thu 01-Nov-12 14:32:47

I think the frequency makes it cheating, once could be a mistake, three times is cheating

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