Been together about 3 and a half months. Known each other since April. Started sleeping together two weeks into it. We have grown very close and done loads together other than sex obviously, we go out a lot and spend loads of time together. Especially lately as he's been sleeping at my house half the week. Anyway - we've not broached the subject of anal but on a number of occasions, especially these past few weeks his hands have wandered around there but he's stopped short, once he was really drunk and went a little further than usual but I stopped him.
We've talked about loads of stuff, real personal stuff but we both seem too shy to actually bring this up!! Is that normal for just 3 months in?
I feel sad that "discussing anal" is something that is felt to be inevitable in younger people today. It is all the result of porn you know. I have never "discussed anal" in my life, when I was more sexually active in my 20s and early 30s men simply didn't expect it as some holy grail of sexual experience. But that was before the internet and porn on the internet.
Gay msn, how do you suppose tbey have sex? I never wstched/ read porn when I first invited my partner to try anal. Porn has not always been available and it may not be to your tastes but it is to others. It does not hurt me and is enjoyable.