I'm posting on behalf of my best friend (for real, she is sat beside me but is not familiar with Mumsnet).
She has recently begun dating a new guy (for a couple months), whom she has known for over ten years as a friend, albeit mostly long distance as he works and lives long periods abroad. He is also Chinese (only relevant because I am genuinely unsure as to whether there are any cultural differences that might make his confession less bizarre than it sounds to me).
He has confessed to her that his ultimate fantasy about intimacy involves eating someone (albeit only ever with their consent).
He says he has never actually eaten part of anyone, but fantasizes about finding someone who would consent to giving him small pieces of flesh (that would not overly harm the person), that he could cook and perhaps even share with them.
Now, she tells me all this in a very relaxed (almost flippant) way, and I can't help but sit here and inwardly think !!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
She tells me that in her opinion it is no worse than people who fantasize about whipping/strangling each other, and that although it is freaky, the important thing is that he has no wish to do anything without someone else's wholehearted participation.
So now I am uncertain as to whether I really am being a bit intolerant (and judgemental), or if there is something about this particular fantasy that is just too dangerous (and creepy) to tolerate.
Mumsnet jury opinions needed! Many thanks.
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Halfway · 29/10/2012 08:39
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Erm 'small pieces of flesh that wouldn't overly harm the person' what part of the body would that be from then??
If this is indeed a genuine post then I would say dump the weirdo, it will not end well if she doesn't!
Sounds really bloody scary to me. I'd run a mile. Quite often people start with the milder end of what they like. What would it lead to and what if he wanted more? Also she would scar.
Just no!!! I'd be wondering about going to the police not whether I should be doing it!!
I suppose he need not worry about "wholehearted" consent, once he's eaten them gulp!
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