Ok so DH and I have had our many problems. He drinks, he goes out, a lot, we have two young DC.
I left with the DC, he promised to change as always, we came back, the DC are happier here above anywhere else - that's why I came back.
I'm doing it for the DC. I'm not denying it. He knows. Everyone knows.
I don't stop him from going out... But I'm finding I actually prefer it when he does.
But the DC are happy, and that makes me happy.. Honestly... I don't need him or anyone else (besides DC) to be happy - is this weird??
Maybe it won't last, this feeling...
Of course I still resent him, sometimes I think I don't even really like him all that much
I don't know what I'm asking here, if anything, maybe just if there's anyone else staying together successfully for the children?
I'm not saying its right, but it's working for us, so far anyway
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NannyPlumBum · 27/10/2012 21:53
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