DD is 8 weeks old and I am on maternity leave until March.
Basically I feel hugely resentful to DP as it seems only MY life has changed since her arrival. As he works (shifts, starting at midday or 6pm) I generally do night feeds and early mornings. He sometimes can get really quite shirty if I ask him to do them and takes this out on DD by shouting at her and being just slightly to physical when handling her. So while he sleeps well almost every night I am exhausted.
I miss working as I thoroughly enjoy my job and I must admit I don't always enjoy parenthood (unplanned) although of course I love her with my whole heart!
I have no time to travel to see my friends as baby goes everywhere with me and I don't drive so this can be difficult, and often can't make plans as I don't know when he will be home to watch her, but he still has time to do all his sports and nights out with mates without worrying about child care as he knows I'll have her.
The only thing different in his life is he has a bit less spending money, whereas my life is unrecognisable and I find my self just being so angry at him all the time for this. Am I the only person who feels this way? Am I being selfish?
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Does anyone else quietly resent their DP?
Jen547 · 24/10/2012 00:14
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