Who says she still loves him after telling you how last night he strangled her, suffocated her, punched her in the face, threw her daughter across the room and punched her son in the face.
She is a mess. her confidence is zero, she doesn't think she deserves better, she says that he only does it when drunk.
I have told her that she is a wonderful, kind, generous, lovely person and she does not deserve this and her children do not deserve this!
She asked the children if they wanted him to leave! and they said no. I said that she can't put that decision on to children.
I said some other stuff that, on reflection, was bloody awful and unhelpful and I want to avoid repeating that mistake, so I am asking for help.
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HeinousHecate · 22/10/2012 16:08
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