I am mum of three, married for 8 years to a kind and considerate man. However, I cannot stop worrying that he is cheating. For the past five years with our son, disabled parents and major money troubles. I have recently started anti-depressants for anxiety and had hoped they would stop the insecurity.
I don't want to be constantly questioning or seeking reassurance or feeling like this end of! My husband has a lot of female friends from before we met and remains in touch. I have no involvement with them and one particular, he was romantically involved with years ago. She lives abroad but I fear that there could be emotional involvement.
We have been under a lot of stress and moved house last year, having downsized. I have found the move difficult, not really feeling at home. A lot of the time, I feel my children prefer their dad to me (they say as such but are only little)and feel they would all be happier without me. I have tried to voice my concerns to my husband and this upsets him, he tries to reassure me that it is me he loves but I have a niggling feeling that just won't go away. I have suggested we separate because I don't want to be suspicious all the time but my husband says I am being silly.
I think counselling could help but just fear it is inbuilt in me.
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runikka · 20/10/2012 12:17
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