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I have issues....I think

(17 Posts)
Primrose1981 Fri 19-Oct-12 20:58:07


I think I may have a problem. I am happily married woman of 17 years (I am 37) but for the past 5 years I have been sleeping with his brother.

I know its wrong but it's some what the forbidden fruit. Last week he asked me to renew our vows ( I said yes) and asked his brother to be best man.

What should I do? I feel so guilty!!??

How can he do a speech and I look the brother in the eye...oh my God I feel so alone!!!

lotsofcheese Fri 19-Oct-12 21:01:57

Is this for real?!

MySonIsMyWorld Fri 19-Oct-12 21:13:33

Really?! Wow....maybe you shouldnt be renewing your vows but ending your relationship full stop?

Primrose1981 Fri 19-Oct-12 21:17:57

it is for real.

I've been thinking I should but all his friends are now my friend, so I will be alone. As his brother will always choose him over me!! I only live in a small town and cannot move because of work!!!

waltermittymissus Fri 19-Oct-12 21:21:07


MySonIsMyWorld Fri 19-Oct-12 21:22:29

You have 2 choices, stop fucking his brother or leave him....

digerd Fri 19-Oct-12 21:25:16

Ditto !!!!

carlywurly Fri 19-Oct-12 21:32:21

Yep, you definitely have issues. Hth.

PelvicFloorClenchReminder Fri 19-Oct-12 21:37:37

Bit late to be having a crisis of conscience now, isn't it?

You need to leave them both and sort yourself out.

Jemma1111 Fri 19-Oct-12 21:41:21

Why not get yourself on Jeremy Kyle ?

BloominMarvellous Fri 19-Oct-12 21:45:36

Happy Friday old did you say you were again??

dondon33 Fri 19-Oct-12 21:47:39


Why would you agree to renew your vows when obviously the first time you uttered them they meant so little to you.

3mily Fri 19-Oct-12 21:48:31

Good spot Bloomin :D

mutny Fri 19-Oct-12 22:01:43

Op the fail for me was pointing out your age for no reason.

mrkidd85 Sat 20-Oct-12 22:01:49

Absolute scumbag

FML Sat 20-Oct-12 22:11:36

Happily married, agreeing to the renewals of your vows (nevermind the fact you haven't stood by them the first time you made them), yet shagging his brother for 5 years?

Lowest of the low.


I hope to Christ that this isn't true. If it is, let your poor DH free to find someone who will love, cherish, and respect him enough to not betray him and who will actually stick by their vows the first time around.

Anniegetyourgun Sat 20-Oct-12 22:16:50

"As his brother will always choose him over me!!"

Yeah... like he did when... oh never mind.

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