Namechanged as I don't want this following me on other forums but basically I've been in a relationship for about 4 months. Everything moved so fast and before long we were seeing each other almost every night of the week. We started doing almost everything together and I really started to feel like I loved him. I thought about him 24/7 and he would text me daily throughout the day - supposedly he felt the same way.
We went on weekends away together and had so much fun, so many laughs, cuddles, amazing sex, talks - I honestly thought he might be the one.
Everything was going so well. Then this weekend we went out and he got a bit drunk and started going on about his ex wife. By the end of the night he was saying that he wasn't sure if he was ready for a relationship as he was still cut up over his divorce and it was "all so complicated" as he was terrified of hurting his kids anymore than had already been done.
I asked him if he wanted to split, he said maybe it would be the best thing for me as he couldn't give me what I wanted. I held it together but cried my heart out when I got home - I know we've only known each other for a short time but I can't imagine going back to not having him in my life. I asked if we were over - he said "lets just see how things go". I've not heard from him all day today.
I'm just gutted. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't understand how things can be so good one minute and broken into pieces the next. We had so much planned too
I have university work that needs to be in for tomorrow but I just can't focus on it. I miss him so much already. Sorry just needed a whinge, I know how pathetic I sound. I'm just so hurt.
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Think I've been dumped (or am about to be). Absolutely gutted.
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MyoCardigan · 17/10/2012 21:35
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