I posted earlier this week about my mum who has been sending very personal details to my ex, including me going into theatre for my recent c section. I can't link to it as I'm on my phone but it was named "wtf is she thinking?"
She has just left after a rather heated discussion about if this was right or not.
I asked her if she thought this was excusable and what her reasoning was for sending these messages. She sat ther and just said that she can tell "her news" to whom ever she pleases, fair comment but when I pointed out that that piece of info wasn't her news to share she just went off at me,.
In the space of 5 minutes I went from being the 27yo me to being a dumbstruck teen!!
According to her I'm not happy in my relationship (i beg to differ),, I only had my dd to please my dp (wtaf?!?! Yes, I put myself through pain and torment to gave my much planned and very much wanted by us both dd to please dp... Erm no mother!!) And I'm an ungrateful, mean, nasty piece of work. At this point my dp asked her to leave.
I've since sent her a text to tell her not to bother contacting me until she has calmed down and sorted out her attitude (probably never going to happen but one can hope!!)
I'm still fuming that dshe has no regard for my feelings!! My ex has agreed to not respond to her emails etc and has said he will block her on fb.
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ithastobeNAICEham · 14/10/2012 17:02
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