hello im new here and have alot on my mind. ive been together with my partner neally 5 years and have a 3 year old daughter. when we first got together it was great for a few months, i found out i was pregnant, lost my job and had to move in with my parents. he started getting possesive. we got a flat together shortly after and the vilolance started. anyway i lost my baby boy at 31 weeks which was heartbreaking. 3 weeks after i got pregnant again, the vilolance was still there aswell as nasty words and things being thrown. i wanted to leave but he kept saying if i did he would have my baby took off me. i stayed of cause and went on to have a healthy girl whos now 3. just over a year ago i got him arrested for violance and he wasent aloud back at our home. i took him back as i do love him but not happy he went on a anger management cause to get himself sorted.
he hasent touched me since but hes so possesive. he rings me twice a day from work and wants to know if ive heard or spoke to anyone. what ive been doing.
he dont allow me to take my daughter down to my mums as they dont want him round there for what hes done in the past to me.
i dont see any of my friends if i do he wants to no what weve spoke about and says i dont know why you bother with them as they never come to see you.
he dont allow me to go out with friends clubbing he never says no but just says id be out sleeping around so i decide to just stay in ( he goes out though).
now hes checking social network sites if ive been on them and seen that im on myspace but that was before i got with him and dont use social network sites anymore because he dont want me on then incase my ex partner is on there.
sorry if ive bored you with this but i need advice as i want to move house as he wont go but its his temper it might come back
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
i want to leave my partner but have a child
9 replies
heartachelady · 11/10/2012 13:07
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.