Hi there, not posted on here much but am always reading posts etc so wonder whether you could give me your thoughts on my little problem.
The background -2 years ago i left husband of 10 years ago. I met this lovely man almost immediately but i wasn't in a place to start a relationship so we slept together a few times but remained good friends. Just over a year ago we decided to give it another go and, on the whole, its been great. However, over the last couple months he's been driving me insane with the things he says when he's drunk (ie, i'm the worst gf ever, i never give him any space etc) and then is mortified the next morning when i tell him. Last night, from out of nowhere, he says that im forcing him into making a decision regards our living arrangements (we both have our own places but i stay at his most nights) an that we've only been "knocking about together a few months"!!
Personally i am not ready to live with him yet but the fact he just ranted about me forcing him upset me - i'm not sure whether he was drunk or not.
Tonight he wants us to have a chat about "where we go from here" - I feel like telling him to jog on but i actually am in love with him.
Its all a bit jumbled up so apologies but your opinions would be welcome. Please ask questions to make it clearer if you want! xx
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Millymollymummy · 04/10/2012 12:06
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