Madly in love with a guy who, for want of a better word, has some strange ideas about moving too fast and priorities.
Basically, we were together a while and then we decided the time was right to meet my kids. We did this, they got on great - yet soon afterwards he tells me he'd like to tell his mum more about me but he doesn't feel like he knows me well enough yet (but we know each other well enough for him to meet my kids??)
He's putting off me meeting HIS kids, yet he wants to move in together. Won't that be a problem when it comes for the kids to stay over???
Basically, he wants to rush some things, and dawdle on others and it seems his priorities and ideas are all messed up. I think I need to cool off.
How do you do that when you're in love with the guy???
(yes I'm a namechanger and have posted about him before, keep changing name as don't want to be traceable as I'm easily recognised in rl)
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I'm going to cool off - help me stay strong!
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TambianLoco · 01/10/2012 16:35
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