I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and all is generally fine with no problems.
He came out of a very long relationship last year where they had lived together for well over a decade. We got together earlier this year and have been taking it slowly.
His FB info page lists him as 'single.'
Anyway, we were chatting last night and he made reference to a friend of his he had been chatting to who was moaning about his wife. My b/f said he laughed and said ' you should try being single mate. It's great! '
So, I pulled him up on this. He was a bit puzzled and said ' Well, I am single in that I'm not married or living with a partner.' If someone asks me my marital status I always tell them about you or say I have a girlfriend or am seeing someone. So, I'm in a relationship of course but not married. This makes me single '
I was a bit put out and don't know whether i should be or not? He went on to say that if he was saying to people he was single to mislead them, then that would be an entirely different thing but he isn't, I am always mentioned. For him, it's just the play on words i suppose.
By the way, he is loyal and faithful and has often said he is not interested in anyone else and is perfectly happy.
what do you think? Am I being silly?
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LolaCola1 · 30/09/2012 14:58
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