Hi there, happily married for over 10 yrs with 2 children. I have this gut feeling that my wife is or has had an affair with one of two people. I did mention it 3 or 4 yrs ago and she was defensive etc which I would expect as I would be the same. Now the daft tells :)
- when he was talking to us about nice trip with his wife she wasn't,t smiling and laughing with the story but genuinely appeared angry/upset
- came back with his phone number in her pocket when we 1st moved to the area allegedly for me ?
- she has asked if he was there on trips to the local pub and not about anyone of the other 8 or 9 who visit the pub with me, this has happened on 4 or 5 occasions
- once some flirty dancing aimed towards him at a party
- she now likes a style of clothing he wears and wants me to purchase !!
Honest answers appreciated as it is eating me away and want to know the truth, advice as I work hard at making her happy but know someone whose wife left them for another man and he never suspected anything !