I really need some advice as I have a huge crush on a man who I see at the nursery my 1 year old DD attends. I only see him briefly a couple of times a week when I go to pick her up after work (he is picking up his DS) but for some reason I just can't stop thinking about him!
So, a bit of background.... I have been with DP for 5 years and we have DD. Things between DP and I have been rocky at times but I do love him and can't see myself leaving him, we are planning to buy a home together and have another child in the not too distant future.
But in the last few weeks these feelings for The Crush have gradually got stronger and I seem to think about him all the time. If I think I am going to see him when I pick up DD from nursery I get these funny feelings in my tummy. We say hello to each other in passing but have not engaged in any other conversation. I think I have caught him looking at me a couple of times but i know it is normal to look at people! (but I cant help imagining there is more to it than that). And I have to force myself to not look at him too much as I don't want it to be obvious I find him attractive. I know he is with someone but I still find myself making more of an effort with my appearance these days, especially when I think I am going to bump into him.
Its not like I am contemplating cheating on my DP with him as it is not that sort of situation. I just don't know what I should do! Should I leave work a bit later so as to avoid him? But how I am feeling now, I just can't do that... the thought of not seeing him makes me feel sad. This crush is brightening up my days! But I do know these feelings are wrong. Help... what do I do??
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I have a HUGE crush... it is taking over!!
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CrazyCrushLady · 28/09/2012 20:51
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